20. Tote-Sum Stores (‘Cause We’re All About Convenience)

29 Jan

One day my sister calls me up and says, “Do you know what a tote-sum store is?”

I say, “Duh, it’s like a 7-11.”

“Shawn has never heard of a tote-sum!” She never ceases to be amazed that her husband is neither A. a Southerner or B. a democrat. But I digress…

Upon researching this post, I was surprised to discover that most folks outside of the Jackson, MS, area likely haven’t heard of a tote-sum either. Seems that there was once a small chain of actual “Tote-sum” stores, whose name was so catchy that it quickly became synonymous with any local convenience store.

These days across the South, tote-sum stores are quickly being usurped by big name gas stations that have joined forces with Domino’s, Taco Bell, and the like. So now you can get gas and, um, gas at the same place. But back in the day, you’d find all kinds of food-like substances at the local convenience store: Icees, fried chicken, boiled peanuts, donuts, and the ever-popular “tater logs.”

Sure, maybe the restrooms at those chain places are a little less frightening. Perhaps the shelves are dusted a little more regularly. Maybe the dairy products are rotated a little more frequently, but I still have a soft spot for a good, old-fashioned tote-sum store.

When I was growing up, my sister and I would walk up to Bernie’s where we could get chips, candy, and bottled Cokes just for signing our names on a slip of paper. It was a perilous journey (maybe a mile in the summer heat along a road without sidewalks. Uphill. Both ways.) but that just made the snacks that much more tasty.

Eventually, the credit system was replaced by an actual cash register (or maybe Dad put the kibosh on our too-frequent charges), but still we’d save up quarters and waste countless afternoons playing Ms. Pac Man.

About a year ago, one of those slick new gas/fast food joints popped up about a block from my childhood home. I haven’t been in there, so I can’t say what it’s like. But there aren’t any old men out front playing dominoes, so that’s probably a bad sign.

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20 Responses to “20. Tote-Sum Stores (‘Cause We’re All About Convenience)”

  1. Marianne March 17, 2010 at 12:08 pm #

    I can still hear my Daddy saying, “Carry me down to the Tote-Sum so we can get some cold co-colas.” I think I spent a part of every afternoon in high school in Jackson stopping by the Tote Sum and getting an Icee. My favorite story: My stepsister stopped at the Tote Sum at Maywood Mart one hot summer day and left the car running so the air conditioning would keep the car cool, while she just ran it to get an Icee. When she came back, she saw her car driving off without her. Never did find it.

    • girloutofdixie March 17, 2010 at 1:13 pm #

      marianne, thanks for your comment!

      my sister and i got many an after-school icee at an off-brand tote-sum. my favorite was coke mixed with whatever other flavor they had. it was the hip thing then. boy how times have changed!

      the story of your step-sister’s runaway car is hilarious! probably not to her, but still.

      my favorite story of that ilk was when one of my sister’s friends was driving by the local jitney jungle and noticed a makeshift carnival complete with funnel cake stand. (we refer to those carnivals as “the jitney state fair.”) she wheeled into the parking lot, threw the car in park (not exactly in a parking space), and ran over to the funnel cake stand without even bothering to close the door of her car. fortunately, nothing bad happened. unless you count her consumption of the funnel cake, which, for the record, i do not.

  2. fred June 5, 2012 at 6:45 pm #

    My cousin and I would collect pop bottles to return for the deposit and spend the money on push-ups at the Tote-Sum up the street from Mammo’s house.

    • Kim Holloway June 17, 2012 at 8:18 pm #

      I haven’t had a push-up in far too many years. I’ll have to check and see if they sell them at the 7-11.

      • Paul H. Yarbrough May 17, 2013 at 11:47 am #

        I worked in Tote-Sum #2 (there were seven at the time in Jackson (1960).)The job was titled “school boy” and I worked for a year. Started at 35 cents/hour and made 50 cents an hour when I “retired.”
        The ice didn’t come in plastic bags. It came after I crushed it in the ice crusher and loaded it in reinforced paper bags. I put up all returnable bottles (no throwaways) and swept, put up stock…I definitely earned my wages.
        I am mentioning Tote-Sum stores in my next novel.
        Paul H. Yarbrough

        • Doug Priester May 31, 2013 at 1:20 pm #

          Tote-Sum Stores were only in Jackson, MS and were owned by Stewart Barry and I guess were the for runners to the 7-11 and pac-a-sacks and my favorite name was south of Jackson,,,, The Hill Top Stop-A-Lot

          • Kim Holloway June 5, 2013 at 4:51 pm #

            Love the name “Hill Top Stop-A-Lot.” In the Florence/Richland area, there was/is? a chain called Bridges Quickie. Where I spent many a dollar on snacks after school…

        • Kim Holloway June 5, 2013 at 4:47 pm #

          Thanks for sharing your memories, Paul. Love that they gave you the title “school boy” and that you managed to get such a hefty raise during your career there!

          • Betsy August 7, 2013 at 6:43 pm #

            My grandfather (Charlie Barry) started, owned and operated Tote-Sums along with my father (Stewart Barry), until he sold the chain in the 80s. In fact, my grandmother Charlotte came up with the name. I still call convenient stores Tote-Sums to this day. What a fixture these stores were in my childhood, and not just because they were our family’s business.

            During the summer, I’d play tennis at Parham Bridges everyday and take a break to go get an Icee at the Tote-Sum on Old Canton Rd. What a lovely memory.

            I must have been feeling sentimental this evening because I googled Tote-Sum and here I am. I’m glad to know other folks still remember this great southern artifact as well.

            • Paul H. Yarbrough August 9, 2013 at 7:02 am #

              If Charlie (“Mister” to me) Barry was your grandfather and Stewart was your father then Susan (our little league queen circa 1953) must be your aunt. Seems to me there was another younger boy.
              I saw Mr. Barry often as either he and/or Stewart were often in the store.
              Actually the Barry family lived only three or four blocks from my home at the time.
              Memories

              • Doug Priester October 27, 2014 at 6:29 pm #

                Paul …Bryan finished at Murrah with me in 63 and he had a younger brother Temple

            • Kim Holloway September 4, 2013 at 12:46 pm #

              Betsy, I sure appreciate your family’s contribution to my childhood. Your grandmother came up with an awesome name. Convenience stores will always be tote-sums to me, too!

              • Anonymous January 27, 2014 at 3:06 pm #

                I’m glad I googled Tote-Sum to see if anything would be here and wow this made My day reading these replies … I lived in Jackson in 1964, first grade, right down the street from a Tote-Sum store … We always enjoyed an Icee and a quarter bought a lot of penny and nickle candy … I wish someone had taken a picture of one to see, I remember the sign read vertical from top to bottom “T-O-T-E-S-U-M … Tote-Sum” … I used to watch it over and over lol … the good old days for sure

            • Brian Habig June 25, 2014 at 7:34 pm #

              Tote-Sum was the greatest convenience store name in the history of the United States, as well as Canada. Like others in this thread, I was feeling homesick and Googled “Tote-Sum” to see what would turn up. Hearing from the granddaughter of the founder was icing on the cake.

              I was laughing last week with a friend (both of us from Jackson, but sitting in a hotel in downtown Houston, Texas) about the fact that we can’t stop calling convenience stores Tote-Sums. I think – on principle – I will never stop doing so.

              Icees, cheap candy (gum for a penny… are you KIDDING me?), fried chicken — so glad I got to experience this. If anyone on this thread finds a picture of a Tote-Sum, PLEASE post it so I can show my children.

            • Doug Priester October 27, 2014 at 6:28 pm #

              Betsy, I grew up with your uncle Bryan and knew all of the Barrys

        • Anonymous December 28, 2014 at 8:47 am #

          I worked at the one off McDowell Rd. 65/66. Left in March 66 for the Marine Corps. It was fun there.

          • Paul Yarbrough December 28, 2014 at 10:15 am #

            I left for Parris Island in Qct. 64 —yes it was great fun!

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